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QRATEs' Voices: Menstruation




By Janet Gilman

We mostly hear myths about menstruation as South Africans. And often, these myths lead to young women to feeling embarrassed and outcasted for experiencing something that happens to them every month.




My experiences about menstruation were that I can't cook for my dad or any male when I am on my periods cause bad luck would follow up. I can't allow any woman on her periods to touch my hair or else my hair will fall off and last but not least I can't be around men when on my periods cause it'll make my blood flow heavier and I might lose a lot of blood.

Afrika Tikkun's students busy writing down their thoughts in QRATE's Menstruation workshop.


How many more myths and untrue stories should we hear, listen and digest about being a woman on her menstrual cycle?!

It's time we normalized menstruation and found pride with walking out of a classroom full of boys and see no harm nor embarrassment about flashing our pads, tampons, and menstrual cups just so it suits best for boys, men or the society.

Smiles all around! 


Luckily, I was able to participate in the Menstruation workshop offered by QRATE. I found the workshop to be fun, dynamic and engaging. QRATE has taught about being confident in your own skin, body and own life without thinking "What are people going to say?" The workshop opened our minds about being content with the way you are born. The QRATE workshops not only teach girls about menstruation but about how oneself can be proud of being a WOMEN.

I am glad to have experienced QRATE's Eduliftment!

Janet creatively explaining the tampon. 

#POWER TO WOMEN✊
#WOMEN RUN THE WORLD✊
#WOMANDLA✊
#IMBOKODO✊
#EDULIFTMENT4KIDS




Janet Nomveliso Gilman is a 22 years old student who is certified in Project Management. Janet is also a Young Urban Citizen and a passionate activist for Gender-Based Violence & LGBTQI+ rights.

Follow her on instagram: (@gilmanjanetn) and twittet (@janetgilman) 




Comments

  1. Unknown9 November 2021 at 09:16

    Hi, I am Zinhle and I am 17 years old. I was recently diagnosed with Polycystic Ovarian Syndrome in February. Since that day, I have felt alone because there wasn't anyone I could talk to about my condition. When my doctor had diagnosed me, he did not disclose the full information about my condition and I was just told to take oral contraceptives (birth control) and be on a low GI diet. All I want to say is that I would like that all girls and women to be more educated about their reproductive health so they are able to flourish.

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